I just found a condum under my daughter's bed when i was cleaning. I'm completely freaked out and have no idea what to do when she gets home from school. help! ↓
Name: amhpgseverino | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 4:07 AM
so first i'd want to lock her in a convent. oh man! but, it sounds like you might need to be a little more careful about who she has in her room and what she's doing in there! ↑
Name: beth | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 6:12 AM
You need to calm down, now. First of all, your daughter is showing she's responsible enough to have protected sex. Better she has sex than she dies of an std, right? Get your head around that idea, first! ↑
Name: schoendienst | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 6:14 AM
Wow, that would really freak me out, too. Sounds like you need to have a GOOD talk with her about committment. ↑
Name: thurmond | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 6:15 AM
Don't tell your husband, cuz if u think u freaked out, wait till he finds out. Better he doesn't, believe me. ↑
Name: sophia | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 6:17 AM
First of all, I'm with beth. Better a live daughter, no matter what she's been doing. Good for her she used a condom. Maybe in this day and age, we don't have the right to moralize too much, since STDs are such a prob. We don't want to scare off our kids too much by coming down all heavy on them. Better to keep the lines of communication open I think. ↑
exactly nicolaruijne - was it a used condom? kids play with all kinds of stuff, condums included. and sophia, its all good to keep the lines open but by not giving strong leadership and solid guidelines we leave kids stranded to make decisions they aren't ready for. i say build bridges of communication with strong supports rather than being afraid of being too moral. hell, the world could use some morality ↑
Name: rosemary | Date: Oct 5th, 2008 8:12 AM
so, i'm just wondering if you got around to doing anything about the condom and what happened. if what you do works i'll tell my friend about it cuz she's got a teenage daughter who spends way too much time in her room with certain friends ↑
Name: brandiboo86 | Date: Oct 5th, 2008 8:35 AM
dont kill her. but you have to talk to her about it so maybe instread of blowing up you could ask about what she does with her friends in her room and then watch for her reaction. maybe it wasn't her. we can hope, cant we? but youll know if it ws cuz shes your child. then you have to talk about it ↑
