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amhpgseverino - December 31st, 1969 7:00 PM

my friend just asked me a good q. she's in a relationship and her boyfriend says he doesn't have any stds - he says that if she doens't believe him and insists on using condoms, then she's showing that she doesn't trust him. how do you respond to that?

babygoodwin - October 2nd, 2008 4:19 AM

that's just ridiculous. he couldn have something and not even know it. if they both want to go and get tested - and see each other's results - then she can trust him. until then - her life is too important to "trust" his word

nicolaruijne - October 2nd, 2008 6:03 AM

You respond with: Get the hell out of my bed!
Seriously, this is God talking to her, givin her a test. Time to get out of this relashunship right now!

sophia - October 2nd, 2008 6:04 AM

Tell her there's other guys and she should dump him. There's no place for trust when it comes to stds.

thurmond - October 2nd, 2008 6:06 AM

She could say right back, if u care about me, wear a condom. No matter what he says about trust, she should come back with "if u care about me wear a condom"

If he doesn't want to wear the condom, there's other guys that care enough to do that for her. Let her find one of them.

schoendienst - October 2nd, 2008 6:08 AM

She can say, "S'long as u don want to wear a condom, we'll have this nice, platonick relationship and get to know each other REAL well first." LOL

beth - October 2nd, 2008 6:10 AM

If he wants to play that game, let her play it back. She can say, "My friend had a boyfriend say that to her and she ended up dying from AIDS. Now, I don't want to ask u again, wear a condom, or that's the end of our relatuonship."

rosemary - October 2nd, 2008 6:33 AM

And she said: What is it about NO you don't get?

devyntaylore - October 6th, 2008 8:08 AM

just curious. is she still with this clown or did she give him up yet? i mean, that crap would last about ten seconds in my life. hope she gets smart before she gets sick

amhpgseverino - October 6th, 2008 1:58 PM

Girlfriends - that's what I've been telling her - but she just hasn't listened. Now, I can show her that I'm not the only one who thinks she should dump him fast and find someone better. maybe she'll listen now! I sure hope so.

Fijona - December 10th, 2008 6:42 PM

I also say that they should each get tested together. Then it's a mutual scary thing

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