that's just ridiculous. he couldn have something and not even know it. if they both want to go and get tested - and see each other's results - then she can trust him. until then - her life is too important to "trust" his word

You respond with: Get the hell out of my bed!
Seriously, this is God talking to her, givin her a test. Time to get out of this relashunship right now!

Tell her there's other guys and she should dump him. There's no place for trust when it comes to stds.

She could say right back, if u care about me, wear a condom. No matter what he says about trust, she should come back with "if u care about me wear a condom"

If he doesn't want to wear the condom, there's other guys that care enough to do that for her. Let her find one of them.

She can say, "S'long as u don want to wear a condom, we'll have this nice, platonick relationship and get to know each other REAL well first." LOL

If he wants to play that game, let her play it back. She can say, "My friend had a boyfriend say that to her and she ended up dying from AIDS. Now, I don't want to ask u again, wear a condom, or that's the end of our relatuonship."

And she said: What is it about NO you don't get?

just curious. is she still with this clown or did she give him up yet? i mean, that crap would last about ten seconds in my life. hope she gets smart before she gets sick

Girlfriends - that's what I've been telling her - but she just hasn't listened. Now, I can show her that I'm not the only one who thinks she should dump him fast and find someone better. maybe she'll listen now! I sure hope so.

I also say that they should each get tested together. Then it's a mutual scary thing