|
|
|
|
i would love to get sexually active after being abstain for almost 5 years when i had my divorce. i also had my menopause during that time. now, i think i can't do it anymore with my present partner even if we use lubrication. i am getting frustrated.
|
|
|
|
|
|
my husband and i also have the same problem. instead of lubrication i am using a moisturizer, only bought it OTC.
|
|
|
|
|
after menopause, sex drive can really drop down and it feels not exciting anymore. i feel you.
|
|
|
|
|
vaginal dryness is one big factor why you won't enjoy having sex anymore after menopause. estrogen replacement can help, give it a try!
|
|
|
|
|
talk to your doctor about options to consider for your problem.
|
|
|
|
|
there are health professionals who specializes in sexual dysfunction that can address your problem without giving you any risks.
|
|
|
|
|
you also need to improve your intimacy, both you and your partner.
|
|
|
|
|
enjoy sex just like old times. have fun first with foreplay to set the mood and be open to your partner for what is comfortable and what's not.
|
|
|
|
|
communication before having sex is very important. sex should always engage partners talking sensually.
|
|
|
|
|
doctor can help you prescribe hormone treatment if in case otc lubricants won't help your vaginal dryness.
|